Achievement of success is an unusual feeling that happens with time. Some become successful very early while others taste success later but the result of their hard work is definitely rewarded. Achievement of success by a person is definitely not an alone journey. At each point of our lives phases, we all need a person who can help, guide and advise us what it takes to achieve the success which we dreamt to make it a reality.
A person known as a Mentor is always there for you to hear from you, relieve your problems and help you become a better person every day. Self-discovery and invention never stops. There are things that we know on how to deal with bad phases in our lives but we don’t know how to implement it in our routine life. For this, a Mentor is needed as he/she counsels us on how to take baby steps.
Most of the times the things that we are facing are because of our actions and thoughts. Our mind does signal to think positively and perform positive actions but we fail to do so because we don’t know from where and how to start. A mentor is like a guru who helps all the way long for us to cross all barriers. The improvement has to be done by us but whatever has happened the negatively that has been etched in our minds stops us from deciding to take positive steps and makes us question how to make it happen, will it really make an impact.
A mentor helps us to heal ourselves. When we are damaged the reconstruction has to be done by us for ourselves. It takes time to come out of trauma but it is us who have to decide whether to make the trauma even more strong or to make solutions to the problem stronger. Whatever has happened cannot come back to the present and the future are in our hands and we have to do our best to make it positive.
Mentors have the ability to connect with us because they have also walked through those difficult and struggled paths to become the person they are now. It is also very important to find the right mentor at the right time. A true mentor is someone who is selfless, loyal, honest and is full of gratitude. They teach us to show gratitude in everything. As they say, everything also happens for a reason so we should be thankful that something bad happened which taught us a positive lesson.
It is not easy to be positive all the time but being negative always makes one feel dead from inside. Mentors are able to help you sail through the phases by giving advice and tips that they followed which helped them become emotionally strong, mature and intuitive to understand life, people and experiences. Everyone has different life events that they have faced made them miserable and think that life is the biggest burden on their shoulders. A positive mentor is always needed to make you realize life is still beautiful and you can make it better.
Appreciate a mentor by showing gratitude towards them and learn to be thankful. Let them also know that it is their hard work that has made a new person evolve from the old version of you.